BDSM Nights

Goals

• Squat and recite the goals:
• Identity and Pain

Rules

• 1. Sir, thank you Sir.
• 2. Control nervous laughter
• 3. Orgasm ONLY when in pain
• 4. Head and eye alignment

Conduct Rating: +3 Demerits


How To Punish

• subject understands that the implement is less important than the intent.
• cane
• humiliating face slapping
• made to stand in high heels

How To Reward

• Hoods, Breath-play, Orgasms

Fears

• zippers, clips, clamps

Trainer’s Gambit

• The first thing is to pay her debt.
• She owes us for her demerit.
• Offer a gambit: 5 successful minutes w/ the whip in exchange for for 3 merits.
• Failure earns her a day of punishment.

Core Skills In Pain Management

• The Training Whip
• ‘Sir, please hurt me Sir.’

Identify Criterion For Skills Assessment

• Successful pain management is:
• Regular Breathing
• No Sweating
• Actively participating, Present
• Progressively take more
• Failure is:
• Not actively engaged
• Non-responsive

• Old associations of submission with a meek, weaker former self block current reaches into slavehood, manifesting as symptoms of reactance and frustration and causing a confusing inner struggle.
• Reactance: ‘an emotional reaction in direct contradiction to rules or regulations that threaten or eliminate specific behavioral freedoms.’
• Is it possible that the decision to relinquish one’s authority can be considered a ‘free behavior’?

Psych Assessment

• Who is she and what is she good for?
• (given in her order, under duress)
• taking pain
• sucking cock
• fucking
• taking orders
• cleaning up mess
• to look at
• enduring

Sucking

• Cannot keep hands off the cock
• Adequate technique, tight lips

Masturbation

• Bound in painful position
• Ordered to masturbate
• Suffers beautifully

Fucking

• Shaved pussy
• Tight and responsive
• Slow to orgasm
• Takes a hard poundng well

Homework

• Proprioception: definition
• Gayle Rubins: bio
• Paul Gebhard (1969)